YES, your Deja conj his NN will make you his victim, to put it really directly. I admire your wisdom. Thank you again. How will these aspects play out? or you consider just the closer orbit? My first husband was abusive His Nessus conjunct my Descendant He has a strong nessus (conjunct with his sun + true node in cancer ). Synastry Aspects for Soulmates - Ascendant Conjunct - Galactic Mystic In mythology, Eros was the god of sexual love and desire. Who is whom? Is it a similar power to the conjunction? Not good, my Friend. 9. I have my DEJA conjuncion JUNO in my house 6 Please, keep me posted though but, yes, please, be careful, Love! That Pluto/DSC has been a source of confusion and frustration for me for a while, but now it makes sense. I generally cannot stand them, and their tendency to be arogant and conceited towards anyone who doesnt think the way they do does come across as downright abusive to me. Is this a synastry, Ariel? You made my day, Juice and Welcome! Eros/Pluto/Lilith together makes for one powerful combination. Astrology 101 Astrophilosophy 1.8K subscribers Subscribe 119 3K views 1 year ago Eros and Venus in. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. Thats not the truth. I believe her Dejanira is conjunct his Nessus by one degree. The story of Eros and Psyche is one of deep and transformative love, but their union was not devoid of hardship. Then my Nessus is 29 Cancer in almost exact opposition with the child asteroid at 28 Cap. It was a relationship based on dates and romance instead of the realities of life. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. The conjunction is excact. Conjunction, Opposition, Square, and Trine! The chart shows the TRUTH. What about mars, Saturn and Jupiter in Virgo? I was wondering how much weight can have the orbit in a synastry.. for example, I have with a guy a Venus trine Pluto, but 5.46 orbit.. does it counts? Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? It "wakes up those areas inside of us and causes us to express them sexually, free from the restrictions of reality. There is the potential to take things to another realm when the aspects are favorable. It is just the North Node, after all, not a personal planet. Set his time to 12 midnight but TELL me, so I know before I look! Any comments will help. Keep an eye on anyone who is near her. Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. . Sexual Synastry - Astrology 42 As far as the form of abuse, one must look at the sign and the quadriplicity( cardinal, fixed or mutable) One must look at the chart to see how the abuse will play out but I think that abuse will occur in your situation with Nessus conjunct Dejanira. Did you know I had one? Im pluto and he is the moon. You can think that Im mad that what youre saying is real all you want, but the only thing that bothered me is your fatalistic outlook and claim of truth that is actually not real. I know it is not funny but the charts will play out, in my experience, anyway. ? 5. crap. Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? Since both Eros and Lilith are isolated energies buried deep in the unconcious, the erotic transformation which takes place upon their meeting is deep with raw and intuitive spiritual potency. With asteroids, I would accept a 3 degree conjunction, tops. Telling people that something will happen to them because of an aspect is what you in particular FEEL is going to happen, but that is not the truth. And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? My Pluto opposite his Moon. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. And Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. This can indicate marriage, but it can also indicate a long-term romantic or sexual relationship. I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. Thank you for this information! Karmic astrology synastry is suddenlyreally interesting when you want to look at your own relationship. If you want to ask me a simpler question, I am game! Finding Jesus is all that really matters in life. To gather more about the flavor of the relationship, look to the actual aspect (is it favorable or difficult?) Eros & Psyche in. In order to talk about an asteroid, one must isolate it. Thank you Ivs. I suppose you have choice on whether to act on it. His Pluto sextile my moon, His Jupiter conjunct my moon and his Neptune conjunct my moon, also his mars opposite my venus, is that conducive to passion and helping me release my cancer 8th house sun conjunct north node repressesion? Not sure which one id prefer. Another asteroid that is dark is Dejanira. Eros Synastry: The Nodes and Major Angles of Your Chart (Conjunctions Black Moon Lilith and Mars in Synastry | ElsaElsa The chart never lies, my Friend. This is my opinion and other people may differ but I call things as I see them, Mandy dear. 3 degrees is wide but this is one of the hardest aspects in the whole chart, so please be vigilant, as I know you will be! Asteroids in Synastry Chart, Astrology online calculator - Astro-Seek.com The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. I would need to see more, Jenn! My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. I was wondering.. Are Sun/Mars (double whammy) and Venus/Mars (double whammy) dark aspects in synastry? Lilith, both Black Moon and Asteroid 1181, brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger, rejection and rage. Connections between the Vertex and the lunar nodes are also indicators of past life in synastry. This is another clear-cut past life astrology marriage aspect, although it isnt as heavy. Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. The issue is telling people that are in healthy relationships or people that are around a couple in a healthy relationship, that those aspects will certainly play out no matter what. Required fields are marked *. Yes, I was thinking about this. I think most people of the same time period would have it though, so it is not that big of a deal, I think. It can ruin possible healthy relationships. woman s Dejanira and Juno, ( 445 and 432 Scorp ) both conjunct mans Eros and Chiron, (510 Scorp, 530 Scorp ) and both OPPOSITE mans Nessus (6 Taurus) When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. Btw he just got married to a girl whose moon is conjunct with his nessus+sun+true node AND also, her dejanira is conjunct with his moon !!! Mars is the planet of passion, desire and sexual drive and Eros is the physical act of sex Re: Lilith conjunct . I have to always be honest. His Nessus makes no major aspect to my planets, except a 3 orb trine to my Mercury and North Node, and Vertex..could this mean well step on each others toes when it comes to reaching our goals? His ascendant is at 24 Virgo and has 0 Virgo in his 12th house. It may seem challenging but we share many conjunctions and trines/sextiles. The chart allows one to see oneself. If you do not have either of these in the natal but have them in synastry, it will play out the same way. However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. Thats weird. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. Pick your top two questions and I will try to help, my Friend! Could you specify what you mean by abuse (subtle, verbal, violent etc.?)? my mars is there too though, trining his Scorpio pluto 0.25 we have physical heat but plenty of fighting. Lilith is looking for sacred sex. We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. Moon oppose Pluto and Moon square Pluto could tend to be dark because they are powerful and not with a harmonious flow. It sounds really bad I guess, but this person has given me so much positivity and encouragement and I feel has set me on a positive path. I've never had a more natural and effortless sexual connection to someone in my life, and it blinded me to a lot of things. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. His Dejanira is in 25 Scorpio, conjunct my Part of Fortune in 27 Scorpio, opposite my Moon in 29 Taurus and Mars and Jupiter, in 0 Gemini. I have my dejanira conjuct by one degree with my AC line. Where did you get these theories from? Yes very passionate.50shades of grey is just childplay. Moon Conjunct Eros: Natal, Synastry, Transit | Astrology.com My Nessus square his Venus Your feelings are not fact. In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid. 2) I just started going out with a guy, we have good chemistry and just checked our natal charts and see we share amazing aspects except for my dejanira. You have such a sweet spirit. Thank you, Lo and Welcome I was wondering how abuse would play itself out if the Nessus-Deja synastry conjunction is in Cancer. We have no moon aspects will this help? Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. You are not an astrology god that holds the key to the entire truth. Its completely okay to stand by what you wrote. A Sun conjunct Lilith transit highlights the power traits like charisma, magnetism, emotional force and leadership qualities of the Sun. His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? The Nessus person brings abuse to the ASC/DSC person. I dont even have tattoos or my ears pierced. What about my nessus conjunct his descendant? Eros - Synni Signs Astrology Please please do Nessus conjunct Lilith in synastry?? How fortunate we are to have such a wonderful body of info to help us! That would seem to be the case but sometimes, the strength of these aspects get the better of us, so it is hard for me to answer. Thank you, Kay <3 1) What does it mean to have dejanira 13 in conjuction with my ascendant 12? You find them sexually attractive. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. I have more compassion for myself, and I feel validated some ~ not to identify more as a victim. DRACO CHARTS (DRACO-NATAL/ DRACO-SYNASTRY) Originally posted by kellyaroman What is a draco chart in astrology ? Pluto conjunct Lilith in Synastry | Astrologers' Community I've never experienced it myself, but have read that Lilith/Pluto contacts are also intensely sexual and even violent (particularly the opposition). It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. Maybe, the good aspects just out weight this one. It is valued! This would be once in a lifetime kind of intense and tender. That is why it feels so life and death. His sun/jupiter/neptune/venus are on my venus/saturn trouble spot in scorp. Amazingly accurate. At the end of the day, that is all this god and goddess really ask for.". I have seen it in a few people, only. Yes, their Moons are trine both in Earth signs. If I had read this as a 14-16 year old, I wouldve been waiting everyday for my mother to start emotionally, mentally, or physically abusing me, and it would have put me in a constant state of fear because I didnt know much about astrology or how complex and fluid it is. What about Nessus conjunct Dejanira in synastry and there is no abuse whatsoever, what would that mean? I just want to let people know that things are not as clean cut and set in astrology as it is written sometimes because things that are presented as the only possible, likely truth will make people will fear astrology and the people around them if they look into isolated aspects from small asteroids and planets alike. What I've read about Lilith makes it seem to me that she's sort of like the Feminine's Pluto with lots of primal sexual urges thrown in, so I'm sure she rooted herself comfortably into your already heavily Plutonic relationships. Eros contacts in synastry have been touted as creating attraction that cannot be denied. My guess is that it would be an obsessive relationship where both would try to hurt each other? tell me your story, if you care to, Juice dear. Why dont you put up your chart in my Forum and ask your question again. Pluto conjunct Sun synastry indicates a powerful and transformative relationship. They have a very strong sense of "us against the world," and they will fight to protect the boundaries of their relationship at all costs. You truly made my day! If it has not of yet, it may be a new relationship. on Dejanira and Nessus. Im curious about that conjunction to my crushs NN, though..do you really think it could mean something? And posting my charf sounds like fun, I just might . The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry. If it feels too, too good to be true, it often is. Moon/Pluto in a trine is very powerful, too. thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. What does that mean? As a result, this aspect can feel like opening a can of worms that literally fly, not crawl, out of the unconscious. It may be off a few minutes and change things. You can gather the tone of the marriage based on the planets involved and the sign that theyre in. Eros represents what turns us on. It may be the abuse takes place in the home or within the family. Eros in Aries makes a person love the chase. This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. I would say no, but I am not the last word in anything. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression? Lilith-Mars Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square) Lilith-Mars aspects are all about clash of desires. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. That is why I dont mince words. Ami, Christian Psychic Readings & Astrology Charts for All Faiths. I know this came off a bit more forward, but only because I want to make it clear that one persons feelings are not fact. It needs to be 3 degrees, tops, so no worries there! Their chemistry is obvious even after all these years but she did recently reveal that some light BDSM play is involved. Children create their future adult personalities by learning from the adults around them and their interactions, so it makes sense, sadly. Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. Deep soul love, incredibly painful at times. Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). I am so thankful to have such a resource like this for guidance. That is why it is so powerful. Sometimes I nurture sometimes he does. What would that mean? However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. Welcome, Ariel and great questions. BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? I appreciate your thoughts on these aspects but I am concerned when any astrologer singles out specific aspects and makes sweeping judgements about charts and how the energies in that chart will be made manifest. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. Past Life Indicators in Synastry and Karmic Relationships - Astrology The nessus and deja conjunction is in Cancer. With any Chiron aspect to the other persons Juno, there was a wound created through marriage in a past life. I read some things. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry we also have Eros (his) conjunct my Lilith and Pluto (mine) conjunct his Venus. Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. I dont believe in past lives, Lo. Not eros. What are your thoughts? If that does not float your boat, feel free not to read. Ami, no one can describe astrology better than you. It would simply be different. , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. I would put Moon/Pluto first in terms of super connection and passion and Venus/Pluto second. TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. YOU are the most important person to me. I didn't eroticize his everyday actions. She is raw sexuality which will not be dark if it touches Venus imo and Welcome , what if I have my Lilith conjunct his juno and his venus. I reply to the comments out of order because I do it on the central comment form. I could not really answer this question without seeing the whole chart. Also my true node is at 22 Cancer close to my nessus (conjunction?) Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. Ami, hello. Im 30 with a mother that is 32 years older than myself and have never experienced any abuse, and Ive been alive and around my mother long enough to experience it. We`ve known each other for a few months and generally it is a good relationship. Also, I try to be very direct to counter the tendency in many Astrologer not to take a stand. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. Juno aspecting the South Node simply means that the pair was married (in some way) in a past life, or had a longterm marriage-like relationship. Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. I am looking to add 5 more aspects and would love your opinions! Maybe you felt this way sometimes given your Lilith-Eros contacts, but I was certainly the one more outwardly angry when the mess finally hit the fan. If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. There is precious little practical info out there on asteroids. Great primal connection with fighting lol. Ten Conjunctions to the Vertex in Synastry - My Christian Psychic Planets and asteroids will be modified when they aspect each other, this the possibilities are endless. eros synastry attraction - Astrology Anonymous